We hope to achieve from this relationship...

Hey.. its been quite some time since I've posted any post.. =)
For today's post.. I've gathered 10 things that we want to achieve from our relationship. After much discussion, these are the data:-

1. LOYALTY is one of the major factor. Well, to me, it might not be the most important factor but it is crucial in any relationship. Nobody wants to get betrayed, isn't it?
2. TRUST: another major factor. Trust is needed in any form of relationships. When there is trust, everything will work out smoothly. However, when we betray the trust, to gain it back is VERY, VERY, VERY difficult. So don't play with the word trust as it plays an important role in your life.
3. BEING TRUTHFUL. To gain trust is to be truthful. Don't hide matters especially serious matters. However, in this factor, I would like to clarify, certain matters that need to be hid, its NOT TO TELL. At times, we need to tell white lie to keep the relationship going and to prevent any partiees to be hurt.
4. BEING FORGIVING is the another crucial factor of them all. In relationships, we do make mistakes and its plenty of it. (Hehe!) We may have hurt that person's heart by being harsh or saying remarks that are not acceptable. If that person realize his or her mistake, to forgive is a must for me & Azhar. Because we believe that, if we are not being forgiving, small matters will become big matters as we keep on bringing up that matter when we make another mistakes.
5. Apart from factors, we would like to BE HAPPY. Yes we will surely have some disputes, but we will try our best to resolve the matters in a calm manner. What matters, when things go wrong, think of the happiness. and joys that we shared. Love should be happy, if it is torturing.. You better let it go.. Just like what blu cantrell sang, "WHEN LOVE HURTS IT WONT WORK.."
6. ACCEPTING NOT TOLERATING. That has always been a motto in my love life after a lot of experiences. Why do I say that? It's because TO LOVE IS TO ACCEPT NOT TO TOLERATE. Reflect, and you will understand the meaning of it.
7. Things that we would like to avoid is the mistakes that we have done in our past and DO NOT REPEAT THE MISTAKES AGAIN.
8. WORKING TOGETHER ( COOPERATING) No relationships will work if there is only one party to keep the relationship going. Why? It will be tiring.. and that particular party will get bored, you know! HEHE.. Well, "It takes 2 hands to clap."

No 9 & 10... To be contd... Hehe